6 Signs You Are Not Good in Bed

Ever wondered if you are not too good in bed? It's not anything to be ashamed of. It can be really uncomfortable, and make you feel really vulnerable, if you feel like your partner isn't satisfied, or you're just not good in bed. But this shouldn't make you feel bad, because how you are in bed can depend on so many different things (Maybe you're stressed? Struggling with body image issues? Not sexually comfortable with your partner?) and it can happen to the best of us. The best part is that you can (and will) improve.
Here are some easy signs that are totally fixable:

You're Not Talking About It

 

 

Being bad in bed isn't just about what happens during sex. All of the problems above can be remedied through communication. If you don't talk about sex, it's going to be difficult to make any improvement. And, you should be communicating about what you like just as much about what isn't working, or what you are worried may not be working. If the sex is great, it shouldn't be a touchy conversation area, And by focusing on the good, it will be easier to talk about the not so good. Make sure you're communicating regularly.

You're Always on the Bottom

 

                                                                                                                                                   Gentlemen, all good things in life take work. Just like you need to hit the gym if you want to get that six pack, and you actually need to read a damn book if you want to be a quality conversationalist, you must also work at sex if you want to be halfway decent at it. We aren't asking you to try the "double reverse lotus" next time you bring a girl home, but at least try a move besides the "slumbering log."


She Fakes It

You know when she's faking it, you just don't want to admit it to yourself. Maybe she moans too loud, or not loud enough, and she doesn't go slightly cross-eyed like she usually does. Life is not like that classic scene in When Harry Met Sally—when your girl gives you her best Herbal Essences commercial audition, you know deep down that you didn't really get it done.
It's OK if you don't get her off every time (as long as you've made an effort). But if it becomes a habit, she might upgrade to someone who can.



You Learn All Your Moves From Adult Websites

 












Copying what you see in an adult film is not okay; let’s just get that out there. P*rn is not real life and if you ask any adult star, they will tell you that about 90% of what they do is fake (up to, and including the climax). So if you think that p*rn is a good way to learn some new moves and impress whoever you are hoping to impress, think again. They generally do not go over well in real life and those “hot” moves that you believe are going to lead down the path of sexual ecstasy usually end up making you look like an utter fool and shine the brightest light possible to your total inexperience.


They Have To Yell Instructions At You 

“Okay, now touch there”, “hold my leg up higher”, “don’t do it like that, this way is better”. Do any of these sound familiar to you? If they do, it could be a sign that you suffer from bad in bed syndrome. Symptoms of this include never getting a callback, never satisfying your partner and worst of all, having to endure being told what to do during an act that is supposed to be fun spontaneous, intimate and everything in between. Nothing says you suck in bed like when someone else has to control the situation and make you feel inadequate at your most vulnerable time. 

You Don’t Try Anything New

Fear has paralyzed you; you probably assume you suck in bed so you avoid trying anything new. You lack imagination and experience, so you end up looking like an amateur in this sex game; a lack of trying something new means you like to stick to your routine which can be rather boring, especially if you have been in a relationship for over a significant period of time. Your lack of imagination is a sign for those you are courting that you just may be as dull in bed as you are in person. So if you find that you have a lack of exciting thoughts and cannot live in your head for entertainment every once in a while; you may be just as boring between the sheets.                                                                                                     

                                                                                                                                                         

He's never once cuddled with you. He sleeps with a body pillow to make extra-sure he has something to place between himself and even the idea of emotional intimacy.